everybody has thoughts, desires, and passions inside of them, but sometimes don’t have anyone they can talk to, and no knowledge on how to exorcise them. why should we be so hindered about our sexuality? why should sex have to be dirty or scary? and if it is, why can’t you turn that into a positive thing and work through that sensually and find something good out of it, something pleasurable?

people should embrace their sexual fantasies and not be afraid of them, because it is entirely human to have them. let their sexuality take them on a journey of self-discovery, so that they can discover their own kinks, perversions and persuasions, and not be embarrassed or ashamed by them, but to indulge them - and safely.

I think that is especially important for women, because female sexuality even in this day and age is still directed into very restrictive modes and channels. and education about female sexuality is almost non-existent. the intensity and scope of women’s sexual fantasies is rarely acknowledged, particularly when those fantasies don’t involve them being the submissive partner or entirely monogamous. 

if you genuinely believe in something, then stop apologizing for it

it’s so easy to love / it’s so easy to hate / it takes strength to be gentle and kind